The Widows of Vrindavan

Women of Bhakti

Abstract

This article explores the lives of widows in Vrindavan, often referred to as "The City of Widows," a holy village in Uttar Pradesh, Northern India. It examines the complex socio-historical and spiritual factors that lead these women, primarily from West Bengal, to seek refuge in Vrindavan after facing extreme cruelty, social ostracism, and poverty in their natal homes. The paper delves into the historical practice of sati and its evolution, highlighting how colonial rule and societal pressures further marginalized widows, despite the eventual ban on the practice. Through scriptural references, particularly from the Bhāgavata Purāṇa, and personal interviews, the article reveals that for many widows, coming to Vrindavan and embracing a life of simplicity and devotion (bhakti-yoga) is a profound spiritual choice, offering dignity and an opportunity for uninterrupted spiritual practice. It concludes by showcasing the work of RadhaSeva, a non-profit organization supporting these women by providing essential resources and empowering them within their spiritual and cultural context, thus challenging the narrative of their "inauspiciousness" and highlighting their valuable contributions to society and their preservation of cultural traditions.